Ever ask yourself, “who am I?” Do you know what you “want to be” when you grow up? I turn 38 this year, and I still don’t know. Or maybe I do, but I’m scared. I want to write, I want to make a difference (in my life and the lives of others), and I want to inspire others to follow their passions. But I haven’t been able to figure out how to make that happen.

I’ve been looking for entry level writing jobs. I need something to get my feet wet. The problem is I have no portfolio. No experience other than my own stories and ramblings. Isn’t it always ironic that in order to get somewhere you have to have experience, but you can’t nget experience without going somewhere. It’s very frustrating.

Where do I see myself in five years? Writing. Where do I see myself in ten years? I hope to be making a living writing. But where’s a girl to start?

If you’re reading this, don’t give up on your dreams even if they seem unreachable. Research. Use your desire to drive your ambition and take charge of the life you want to be living. I know this is hard and scary, but reaching for the stars will get you that much further than just looking at them.